Attitudes for Success

Because there are a few ways that work best and many ways that don't. You will do best to learn which do and only use them.

How to tell which work.

The way you naturally think and try, usually won’t work. Otherwise everyone would be doing it. What comes natural to you or you feel and aversion to can’t determine your actions or attitude.

You have to learn from those who are successful and have done it and helped others do it.

The 1st step is Attitude and How you Think.

You will do best and have an easier time if you shift from thinking that what works for an employee, to thinking the way a successful entrepreneur does. Without the mental shift it doesn’t matter how you do it or what system you use, you still won’t have much success.

Why not?

Because this is a people business and they tune in to your thinking and non-verbal communication, tones, body language, sub-conscious feelings, fears, doubts, hiding things, lack of self confidence, guilt, etc.

So you must decide to and learn what it is. That there is a way it is OK for you to think and be positive, believe you will and others will, trust, risk, make mistakes, decide, commit, own it, be genuine, all which create Attraction.

All of these attitudes are necessary and the amount of your success and happiness in it will be in direct proportion to how much you grow and live in these attitudes.

Many have achieved some measure of success only to let it drop off because they do not feel they deserve it or still have some other self-destructive beliefs and conditioned thinking that is controlling them which others notice and determines their outcomes in life.

Until you become enlightened about these attitudes and beliefs and choose to live in them you will only working as a hobby or service or for growth and learning but not for maximum success.

How can I be so certain of this? Well, like most people I tried for years to do it without this shift. And most likely so have you. How has that worked? How has it worked for others you know?

Those I have learned from and those I see having success learned and live these and for one reason or another they have become people of attraction. They have something others want and so want to follow them. Now few will have everyone wanting to follow them. You don’t need everyone to follow you.

Principle 1. You don’t know everything.

So even that which you think you know, might be a mistake. So be open to change what you believe and think. You may learn something new that you didn’t know that changes how you think and believe. Even today. So are you willing to be open minded to learn ?

Principle 2. You are fine, you are not all you can be, or will be, but there is nothing that prevents you from becoming a person who will attract plenty of people to you so you can have great success and financial freedom.

If you choose not to believe this you will not have much success or keep a following. You probably won’t even start. This just takes a decision to believe you are fine or keep believing you are not. So what will you ever accomplish if you keep thinking of yourself as defective, broken, not good enough or lacking something? And when will you get enough so you can think you are OK? Never it’s a habit. You just decide that you don’t know it all and therefore you don’t know for sure whether you are OK or not and it gives you the best results to believe you are fine. Funny thing, when you believe this about yourself, so do others. They tune in to your belief that you are not OK and so look for what is wrong. Or they get that though you know you are not perfect you are a good person.

Principle 3. You must be humble and willing to risk your reputation and what people may think of you or judge you to be or judge your motives and actions to be.

If what you want most is to live your life trying to control everyone else so they do not think badly of you then you have a full time job and preoccupation of mind that will prevent success. This thinking is selfish and inconsistent with serving others. Isn’t it obvious that the more people you come in contact with and help that there will be more who get disappointed or just don’t like the way you are? Do you like every person every personality type? Do you want to live and work with al of them or do you prefer to be with some people more than others? Well why shouldn’t they get to? In fact if they like green and don’t like blue and you are a blue person then does it really say anything about you if they don’t like you? Of course not. It gives you information about them. It says they like green and they don’t like Blue. Just because they like green does not mean there is anything wrong with blue. In fact if you spend time trying to turn green to get their approval so you can feel OK about yourself, because you don’t or you wouldn’t care what they like, then you are not being genuine and blue so all of the people who like blue miss you. And this is the hard way. It’s hard to try to get everyone to like you. Why not just be blue, let the ones that like you follow you, and leave the others who like green to work with green people?? This is the easy genuine way. Of course you must 1st believe Principle 2 to live this way right? There is nothing wrong with talking fast or being pushy or being sensitive or a poor talker or whatever you may think of yourself or have heard from others. Plenty of people will like you and want to trust and work with you once you quit being a phony and trying to act like what someone else wants. So when you decide it doesn’t matter what many others think of me, I just need to be my genuine self and care for those willing to let me give them support to accomplish what they want in life, where it fits in with my agenda and purpose in life, then you will Attract plenty who want to be like you and have the freedom you do. This is just a decision to live one way or the other.

*How much longer will you keep paying the price you do to live as you have before you choose to live the easy genuine successful way?

Principle 4. Believe you can and they can? Do you know for sure they can’t?

Then doesn’t it make more sense to believe they can? In fact do you know for certain any reason they can’t have success? And have you noticed how many other people of all types who do? So if they can so can you. You don’t have to be 1st. Just follow others who have gone through this transformation to success. Find some you can emulate within your values and do what they do and with this mindset.

So what would be your reason to not believe you can? Don’t want to be wrong?

Then don’t quit. If you haven’t quit then you may still have success so you aren’t wrong. Only quitting can make you wrong. And believing is what brings the success so you won’t be wrong. Believing Attracts others. They want to believe but they want someone to believe in them before they believe in themselves. So if you believe in them then they may choose to believe in themselves and have success.

And doesn’t it make more sense to keep living in the possibility you will have success and financial freedom than to resign yourself to never having it and not helping others to have success? In fact if you do what we are teaching you, it will be impossible not to have success. You have to quit to not have success. So what do you want more than financial freedom that will for sure prevent this success?

Principle 5. Base your future on what you know now, not on results from your history.

The fact it didn’t work before, or someone said this in the past has absolutely no bearing on what will happen as long as you do something different.

Yes very likely if you keep doing the same things with the same mindset and disbelief and doubt you will get similar results. But if you shift your thinking and attitudes so others don’t react the same way to you and then do the same things, doesn’t it make sense you will get different results? So you can change your results by changing how you think and what vibes you give off and what thoughts you broadcast to others.

Principle 6. You Get What You Want Most –

If you want something enough to pay whatever the cost is to have it you will get it. If you don’t want to pay the price to get it because you want something else more, you won’t. So what do you want more than financial freedom? To rest, not work hard, not be misjudged, fantasize that everyone likes you and you are Ok because you aren’t being rejected or told No? Is this really worth the price you are paying for that. To have to work 40 hours a week for 40 years and try to retire on 40% of what wasn’t enough income to live on the last year you were working? And then run out of money in a few years so you have to die because you can’t afford to stay alive and pay rent or property taxes and all the other expenses. So our sub-conscious mind knows what we want most and what we want to avoid. Our choices and decisions are all controlled by the governing beliefs of what we want most. So we are not even free to choose something that might violate our strongest desires unless we really work it up. What works best is to look honestly and deeply at our feelings and old hurts and see how we have believed as a result. And you only have to look at your choices in life and results to see what you want most. If you want a new car you get one. If you want an ice cream more than you want to lose weight you eat one. Apparently you don’t want to lose weight most. If you did you would. So you have everything you want most. So look at what you have. Maybe you want contentment most so you say I won’t want anything so I can be content. May as well get a frontal lobotomy as to deceive yourself like that. It’s called denial. Don’t you want to be able to help more people or relieve suffering of others or feed some hungry people or ???? Don’t you want to be able to help your children get better educations or get a business going or own their home and get the things done they need or support more missions? Or are you content to just bury your talents, keep and be content with what you have and not use them to make more? Hmmmm. Remember the parable? Maybe its OK to want more to use for good. It may be not good to want more just to have for security or to control others with or to build bigger barns for greed or see them as your security and be rich. But maybe it is good to increase your income if you give a lot of it to support good projects and help more people and not store up riches for yourself.

So what do you really want most?

When you want most to be free to do more for others you will have all that you need to do what you want. If you really want it enough to do what it takes to get it you will have it. So be content, you already have what you want most. And if you don’t think you do, then you need to change what you want most to that, so you will go get it.

Principle 7. Think Positive – How and why to look for winning ideas and decisions

OK so what does it really mean to think positive and how do I do this on a daily basis?

If what you want most is to not make a mistake or not be wrong, then your brain is always looking for mistakes. So the only choices you have to pick from are mistakes. You can pick a big mistake or a small one but you asked your brain to find all the mistakes so you don’t make one. Because that is what is most important to you. More important to not make a mistake or be stupid than it is to have success. So the brain like a computer can only do what you ask of it. Can you see that asking it to not make a mistake is not going to give the same answers as asking it to find winning successful decisions?

So ask your brain to find win win decisions others benefit and s do you. Your brain is smart enough to do this. Now you may say I won’t find as great winners as Donald Trump does. You don’t know this but so what if it was true. Point is don’t you think you will make better decisions than you are now if you stop looking for mistakes and start looking for winners? You just live at risk of making mistakes. After all don’t you make mistakes now anyway? No one expects you to never make a mistake. Is it OK with you if a friend makes a mistake? Do you hate them, reject them or lose respect for them if they make a mistake? And what if the biggest mistake was living your whole life trying not to make a mistake instead of using your mind to its best to find the best successful decisions and ways to do things even if the price was sometimes you make a mistake?

So positive thinking is looking for a win win decisions.

2nd It is also realizing you don’t know it all so what happened may have been good. Even a car wreck. What you don’t know is if the car hadn’t hit you that what was going to happen further down the road was something worse. So this was a blessing that prevented the worse. So how do you feel when you think something that happened was bad?

Why live feeling like bad things are happening instead of thinking that its all for good and looking for how this could be good. You are happier, more successful and ore attractive when you live and think this way. It doesn’t mean you can’t say ouch when you feel pain, but just know like the pain you get in the gym working out it is for good even if you don’t understand it. What benefit do you get from feeling bad? Why go there. Just trust its all working out to strengthen you and build your character so you can support others in a stronger way. You don’t know everything so you don’t know for sure its not for good, so choose that interpretation instead.

3rd it is realizing that what you focus on you attract. Like when you get a new red Chevy you see a whole bunch of those same cars on the road and say, I never knew there were so many of them out there before. Because you attract and see what you are thinking about. So think on positive things and you will attract more of them. The Law of Attraction is always working even if you don’t want it to. It matches frequencies or vibrations. Don’t think of a white elephant. Don’t think of a pineapple. You still do what you didn’t want to and you attract it. Don’t Doesn’t work. So don’t say don’t. I don’t want that or I don’t like that say what you like. If you say I don’t want that then catch yourself and say what you do want. Put that energy out there. If you are thinking negative you are attracting more of that. So why not think positive, and attract more of that. When you whine and complain you attract more of that. Same with doubts or fears. Doubt your doubts. Use your fears. Fear your fear because they hold you back. If you doubt you can do something then say I doubt that doubt I can do that. Words have power. *So speak what you do want. Focus on and think about what you do want. Talk about and be enthusiastic and excited to raise the intensity of vibration around what you do want.

Principle 8. Act Now – waiting until you know how to do it right is not the right way

We never do it right or get to know if we do it right. We just have to do it, then see the results. Learn from them and adjust if needed. But the faster we go and the more we do the easier it is the fewer people drop out, the more money is made sooner. Feel free to do it poorly and improve. But do it now. When you do it poorly others see that they can do it easily and do it now and don’t need to learn a lot first and wait. Doing it poorly works well. Again its your attitude, belief, enthusiasm and confidence more than what you know and say that influences people to say yes when you invite them.

Consider that you are giving mixed messages, non-verbal vibrations others are affected by because you are staying at the level you are at and not being a PD or Gold or Platinum already?

Consider that by your going slow you are giving a mixed message to your downline that this is hard, that you can't get to PD and some of these not only infect your downline but also tempt you to think this way or doubt yourself at times? Choose to be done with any level except PD Gold or Plat. You are a PD and will collect the PD pay and recognition soon. Do it for them too! Get out of their way and be a Gold or Platinum for them so they can be a PD . If you aren't a gold then they can't be a PD. So go Gold. I am a Gold PD so that my 3 main leaders can be PDs. I help people create financial freedom. I am a Presidential Maker. So lets get er done. Soon.

Principle 9. Own it – Take ownership and responsibility of it. I am a Presidential

I am a Mannatecher, an MLMer a wellness educator, I help people generate financial freedom. It has to become a part of who you are. Just as much as if you are an engineer or a mother or a woman or a technician you are also a Presidential. If you wear it like clothes you can remove and distance yourself from is others are negative about it then they sense your lack of confidence and conviction. They want success too but they try to shake you to see if you are the real deal they can follow. They know if you can’t answer them and stand up to them you are no one they can follow. Isn’t that a pyramid they say. You confidently reply no those are illegal. The BBB in their articles Tips on MLM show people how to tell what a legitimate network marketing company is. And we are legit a publicly traded company on the stock market. Does that sound like something funky to you?

Let your people know that you are a Presidential or a Gold or Plat, and that you will be earning that income soon and be recognized for having been one soon. Not I am going to be a PD or I will be some day but I am one. Just as a person says I am a Singer. They may not be a good one but they are one. Why ? Because they decided it to be. You decide to be a Lawyer or a computer tech or a plumber or an electrician. You aren’t born with a tag that says what you are. You get to decide it. You are a singer because you decide to be one. Your decision makes it so. As long as you hang out with computer techs and do what they do you will become a computer tech. Its impossible not to. You have to quit. If you go to school to be a carpenter or electrician and do what they do you will be a carpenter. You won’t end up a lawyer. So here is the good news and why Robert Kiyosaki says MLM is the Perfect Business for most people. In the same way you are a singer because you decided it to be, you can be a Presidential because you decide to be that. You can be a multi-millionaire because you decide to be that. You hang with them, learn from them, do what they do and you are one.

And you believe others can be too if they will learn what you have and do what you do. Not necessarily do exactly what you do but similarly with these beliefs and attitudes and they can learn the ways or how tos from any of the other leaders. Because there are many ways that work and many ways that don't. They just have to learn which ways do and only use them.

But the 1st step is this attitude, positive, belief, trust, risk, decide, commit, own it, genuine, all which create Attraction.

So if we now own it and say I am a PD and it will show fast now, this requires us to admit to others why it took us so long and was so hard if it is really easy; so we say we thought we knew how to do it, but it didn't work well. We had to go learn how at events etc and hang out with PDs to become a PD. We had to learn to shift how we think which took us a while to figure out and we are still learning. And you can only learn it while doing it, you can't wait to learn to then do it right. You have to do it poorly and get better like riding a bike. You have to join the country club and be the worst golfer with the lowest income to get to hang out with the successful which you wouldn't if you didn't join. But now that we know how to be successful we are. So we are PDs because we have decided to be and committed to the actions a PD does which are not any harder than the action and RD or ND or ED does. In fact easier and more fun and certainly more rewarding because we now know the easier way to do it now. So you can hold us to it watch us then do it. Or you can do it with us. Of course we suggest the latter because waiting now may result in waiting later or an excuse. It is also an attitude of I must see it before I will believe it which you will have to lose to have success. You will not see it until you believe it.

Principle 10.Celebrate Successes - even small ones, reward yourself and others.

Reinforce what you want to see in your life and other’s. Have fun, create a lot of energy and excitement around what you want. Give lots of recognition to others when they take action you want to reinforce toward success.