You Create Your Results

We often hear people say that you create your life or that you create your outcomes and results. This may seem strange and hard for us to understand how we can create our results; let a lone our whole life. Many people live with the belief that life happens to them, things happen to them. We even have the famous bumper sticker #&%# happens!

We may think, how can I cause the way someone else treats me? How can I make them hit me, dislike me or make an investment to go up or down? These may seem to be out of your control. But when you understand that your subconscious mind is not only making you make many of the choices that you do, it is also broadcasting information to others like a radio, then we can see that others react to us. Even if we don't speak or say anything, they can sense things about us. Like when you walk into a room where people have been arguing, even though it is quiet now you can tell there was a fight. Such intense energy that is created from that situation hangs around a bit and is so strong most of us sense it.

Then of course there are other non-verbal communications, like body language, tone of voice, etc.. All these are interpreted right or wrongly, accurately or less accurately by others.

Now more specifically to how you actually create the results of others consider this.

I have a large green Amazon Parrot. He talks well and people want to hold him on their arm. I tell them that he is friendly and will get on but that he has no arms, so when he will put his beak down on your arm to test to see if the branch is strong enough so that he can hop on and not fall and get hurt. Those who BELIEVE this and TRUST THE PROCESS and do this, get the result that he just hops on.

But those who are afraid he will bite them and as he puts his beak down to their arm pull back; well they scare my Parrot. So then they muster up courage and try again, they are really going to try harder and try to be better this time. They are just sure they can do it and will get better results this time, what happens? Well of course my parrot bites them! And they exclaim I knew he was going to bite me!

Well at least they get to be right about knowing the future. They should know; they have created their future in the past the same way. But what they don't see is that by their fear they caused the bird to think that the branch was weak and now he doesn't trust them and won't get on them and tries to protect himself by scaring them away.

See, there is no woo woo or psychic stuff here. Just a perfectly logical explanation of human and animal behavior if you know the behind the scenes perspective.

And the worst part is that now no matter how many times they go back and try or no matter how hard they try not to be afraid, he will bite them. And they will say see, I can't do it, birds don't like me, I am a failure or whatever other interpretations that aren't true, but they want to make up about the experience. They look true or logical from their perspective, because they don't have someone who knows something they don't, to show them another perspective or possible explanation. .

They created this attack by their fear and not trusting the process of testing branches with a beak since he has no hands. They did not trust those with successful experiences, they listened to those who said be careful birds bite, or their past history and experiences with birds. So even though they had someone, who told them the truth, who could free them to success, they listened to others and their history and did not grow and learn how to have success. So they keep repeating the same things, with strong empirical proof that they are right. There is no way for them to ever have different results until they let someone show them they are wrong. They don't want to be wrong more than anything! They don’t want to appear stupid or a failure so they argue and resist and can't be wrong. They would rather stay broke than be wrong, so they get what they want most. So this blind spot prevents growth and success. Until they are willing to be wrong, and listen to someone else who has a completely opposite perspective or interpretation of the events, they won't change their results. Because the results will only change when they change. When they change their beliefs and interpretations of their past, and take responsibility for their actions, seeing that they can control their outcomes, they will have success. They will stop having to blame others, and they won't have to be right all the time. Can you see why this will make them a more likeable and attractive person to others? Can you see why this affects every area of your life. Can you see why immediate changes can take place?

So are you going to try harder and harder or eventually just give up, or will you decide to try something new? To get some coaching and input from successful people who know how to have success? Even though it may cost more, are you willing to study with those who charge for their advice because they know it is valuable; or will you keep taking the free advice of those who also have poor success?

If you were going to open an auto mechanic shop, would you ask the man who failed 3 times at running an auto shop and wasn't able to make it go; or would you pay to go to a seminar and learn from successful owners who had growing auto shops? Stop listening to the unsuccessful and those who only have what you have now. Start making friends and being with people who are going where you want to go!

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